Serendipity

Today we are going to Muse about serendipity. If this is your first visit, welcome to Musings. If you have been here before, welcome back. Over time we are going to talk about many things: the past, the present, perhaps the future, travel, art, society and more. Wherever my musing takes me. I hope you will come along with me.

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ser·en·dip·i·ty | ˌserənˈdipədē |

noun,  the occurrence and development of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way: a fortunate stroke of serendipity | a series of small serendipities

We are between holidays and I have just experienced a tortuous serendipity. Having not much else to do at the moment I thought I would share it with you.

In July we were preparing for a several month trip to Mexico. Such a trip requires thoughtful packing and takes time. Among the items I knew I would need were reading glasses (readers). I have two pair I like, one for the newspaper and the other for the computer. I didn’t want to take them both . . . too much stuff. I packed the pair I thought I would least miss if it was lost or broken and put the other in a glasses case.

And off we went to Mexico. The pair I took was misplaced and wasn’t found until we returned home. In the travel it was damaged. Hmmm!

So once we were home I started looking for the other pair . . . nowhere to be found. I knew I put it in a glasses case. Frustrating! I thought I was being so careful. Where the hell did it go?

With one pair missing and one pair damaged the decision was made to order another pair. Shortly, a small box arrived. And in it was this.

Strange looking case

I was expecting something else. This did not look like a reading glass case.

But, looks are sometimes misleading.

That’s OK.

About this time I was working at my computer. It and numerous other devices feed into is a rats nest of electric plugs and surge protectors in the chair-well of the credenza next to my desk.

The Big Daddy is this fellow.

It has a backup battery that can power the devices for hours in the event of power failure.

But, you know, a battery has a limited life and just at this time Big Daddy died. When that happens . . . .

BEEP BEEP BEEP

Very distracting. So I had to turn it off, extract the battery and order a new one. These fellows are not found at the grocery store

With Big Daddy out of commission I needed an additional surge protector to accommodate all the things plugged into the rats nest. I only had one more available.

Do you see the little sucker near the left of the work table? The red arrow is a hint.

What you do not see is where the thing is plugged in. The outlet is floor level at the back left corner of the work area. That means in order to retrieve the protector and get it over to the computer area I had to pull the work table out into the room far enough to crawl back there and unplug it.

Do you have any idea how heavy that thing is? The drawers you see are paper files, filled with prints, drawings and supplies. That makes it REAL HEAVY. It takes all my effort to pull that table away from the wall and I am not a small guy.

But I did it.

I left the table partly out into the room so I could get back to the outlet. When the replacement battery arrived, I put everything back as it was before. In the process I pulled the table even further into the room for easier access to the outlet. And I found this:

Serendipity

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Smoki

Today we are going to Muse about The Smoki people. If this is your first visit, welcome to Musings. If you have been here before, welcome back. Over time we are going to talk about many things: the past, the present, perhaps the future, travel, art, society and more. Wherever my musing takes me. I hope you will come along with me.

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The Smoki

One of the great joys I experienced as a boy was an annual visit to my grandparents who lived in Prescott, Arizona.  Most of these visits were in the summer when school was out and that meant I was often in Prescott for the 4th of July and Frontier Days and the rodeo.

Bronc rider
 Bronc rider

I was also there in August to view the Smoki Dances, which were spectacular, well-intentioned and politically incorrect.  I thought we could talk about them today.

frontier days
 frontier days

The Smoki, pronounced “smoke eye”, date back to 1921.  That year, Prescott Frontier Days Rodeo was broke and in dire need of money. A group of prominent businessmen and politicians decided to put on an “Indian” show in the hopes of bringing in more customers. Their show, billed “Way out West Show,” was a roaring success.

smoki snake dancers
 smoki snake dancers

They dressed in native attire, danced, beat drums, chanted and performed what appeared to be Native Americanrituals. The Smoki People were born. (In 1922, historian Sharlot Hall wrote a booklet, The Story of the Smoki People, a history of the fictitious tribe.)

The fake tribe’s popularity grew. The Smoki formed a women’s auxiliary, which took charge of costume design and fabrication. After two years as part of the Smoki, a woman could shed her “maiden” status and become a Smoki Squaw. Children also became involved and received costumes and wigs made of black yarn. The social aspect of the organization appealed to many, and, after a few years, most Prescott residents were affiliated in some way with the Smoki. Smoki was part history, Hollywood, social club and a who’s-who of Prescott society in the early years: Gail Gardner, Barry Goldwater and Grace Sparkes were members; and Sharlot Hall wrote a scathing editorial when a California newspaper criticized Smoki.

Even President Coolidge had contact with the Smoki.  He became an honorary member.   Here Coolidge is shown  on October 22, 1924, holding a ceremonial hat of the fictitious[127] Smoki Indians. On June 2, 1924, Coolidge signed the Indian Citizenship Act, which granted full U.S. citizenship to all American Indians, while permitting them to retain tribal land and cultural rights. However, the act was unclear on whether the federal government or the tribal leaders retained tribal sovereignty.

The Smoki people participated in parades as far away as Philadelphia spreading knowledge of the organization and its ceremonials.  A particularly famous member of the Smoki was Barry Goldwater who often served as an announcer at the shows.

smoki in Phoenix 1928
 smoki in Phoenix 1928

The exclusive club dominated Prescott’s social scene for the next 70 years.   The Smoki members were, for the most part, business people and could be recognized by distinctive, and discreet, tattoos on their left hands, three dots in the hollow between the index finger and the thumb.

Smoki Dancers and pueblo
 Smoki Dancers and pueblo

Smoki historians say that even though the dances and performances may have started out as a money-making operation, their philosophy turned more lofty after they legally formed the Smoki group in 1923.

snake dancers
 snake dancers

The shows were physically challenging due to the wide range of dances performed.  The annual snake dance was the signature performance but it was only one of many dances.  By the 1980’s, the Smoki had trouble recruiting younger members and, as a result, had increasing difficulty with staging a vigorous show.  Although audiences, predominantly white Anglo Saxons, loved the annual snake dance performed in “the dark moon of August,” some Native Americans, particularly the Hopi, were not amused.

The controversy and animosity between some tribes and the people of Prescott started in 1921. It’s simple,” said Donald Nelson of the Native American Advisory Council for the Smoki Museum. “The snake dance is very sacred to the snake clan. It’s a religion issue.” In 1990, a delegation from the Hopi reservation observed the show and decided to protest recognizing that the Smoki dance emphasized entertainment while their ceremony was very religious.  In 1991, in light of waning numbers to put on such elaborate performances and on the heels of a peaceful Hopi protest against the dances, the Smoki People disbanded.

smoki design
 smoki design

With it passed a small piece of western history.

If you find yourself in Prescott, Arizona you may wish to visit the Smoki Museum.

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The Sketch

Today we are going to Muse about sketches. If this is your first visit, welcome to Musings. If you have been here before, welcome back. Over time we are going to talk about many things: the past, the present, perhaps the future, travel, art, society and more. Wherever my musing takes me. I hope you will come along with me.

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The Mighty Sketch

This week I was rummaging around my studio and I became focused on my sketchbooks. I used to have one with me most all of the time. Not as much today, but still frequently.

The books have working drawings, quick sketches, composition ideas, etc.

They also record passages in my life.

Most of my life has been spent in Arizona, New Mexico, California and Washington, and in the south-east, Florida. Much of that is diarized in these books, tucked away unseen. I thought I would show a bit of it.

The West

Arizona and New Mexico

A View From Jerome watercolor

I have lived in Phoenix, Flagstaff, Scottsdale, Casa Grande, and Kingman Arizona and as a child spent a lot of time in Prescott where my grandparents lived. With the exception of Phoenix these were relatively small communities and rural in character when I was there.

Great vistas and big skies are what I think of when I think of those days. I could see a long way and there was a sense of singularity, being alone. I think it is reflected in these sketches.

Prescott Valley
Prescott, Arizona
Dewey, Arizona
In Scottsdale
Bridge at New river
At Taos
Near Taos
Railroad Bridge near Prescott Arizona
Jumping Jack
Suguaros and Granite
Nogales, Arizona

California

Ford Bridge, Los Angeles Harbor, watercolor

In my 40’s I moved to the Los Angeles area. I was born in Los Angeles but moved away before I was old enough to have memories. I had lived in Monterey and Carmel as a child, attended the University of California in Berkeley and taught school for a couple of years in Bakersfield. My father had lived in Indio, San Diego, Yucaipa and Santa Barbara. So I knew a lot about California and I was back.

It was a much more urban and frenetic scene than Arizona. I think it is reflected in the drawings.

Overpass, Bakersfield
Oildale

Coronado Street
Long Beach
Vermont Street
Belmont Heights
Manhattan Beach
Laguna Beach
Theater District, San Francisco
Hofs Hut
Millies

Southeast

Florida

Flagler Drive, Watercolor

Today I live in West Palm Beach, Florida about 80 miles north of Miami. Our community grew substantially during the 1920’s and much of the architecture reflects a Mediterranean influence.

287 Valencia road
Tiles and shutters
Mediterranean
2413 Medina Way

One of the biggest adjustments for me has been the flatness. I like to see distance and vistas. Florida is flat, so unless you are looking out over the ocean you normally only see across the street.

Howleys
South Palm Beach
View of West Palm Beach across the Intracoastal Waterway
Near Mar A Lago
Mangrove Island

I miss the vistas.

It has been fun to share a few of my sketches, unseen for some time.

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The Joy of Travel

Today we are going to Muse about Travel . If this is your first visit, welcome to Musings. If you have been here before, welcome back. Over time we are going to talk about many things: the past, the present, perhaps the future, travel, art, society and more. Wherever my musing takes me. I hope you will come along with me.

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Off to Mexico

Recently we spent several weeks in Mexico. The experience getting there is one I will remember for some time.

Our itinerary had us fly out of Fort Lauderdale, Florida to Mexico City. There we would be met by a driver who would drive us three and a half hours up to San Miguel de Allende (SMA). Once there, we would meet an agent of the property management company which manages the house we had rented. She would let us in the house and show us the various things we would need to know. That was the plan.

We packed more than we would normally because we planned to be gone for more than a month. We also had our dog, Teddy, with us.

Getting to the Airport Early

As is recommended, we arrived at the airport 2 hours before departure. The terminal was swarming with people and the check-in process was essentially self-serve at a kiosk. That was confusing to me and heightened my stress level.

When we tried to check our luggage, mine was accepted but Jeanette’s was rejected because it was over the weight limit.

We were told to take her luggage to another part of the terminal for processing. The entrance to the counter we were told to go to was roped off! Stress!

We finally got someone to open the pathway and we checked her luggage.

Four Hour Delay

After going through security we went to our gate area to wait to board. Soon we were notified that the departure was delayed an hour. Three times, on the hour, we were notified the departure was delayed another hour.

Finally 4 hours late we flew off to Mexico City. Stress! It was about 8:30 PM when we landed.

More Delay

On our way to collect our luggage I stopped at the office of the official who was responsible for approving entry of pets. I stood at his window for thirty minutes before he came over to process my paperwork. There were three people behind me waiting. As you can imagine people were not happy.

What?!

This task being done, I headed out to baggage claim. Jeanette had gone ahead while I was getting the dog permit. There she stood with my bag and a porter. My bag. Not our bags. Just my bag.

Her bag was not there. Stress!

We made a missing bag report. That is not easy to do when you are dealing with a foreign language. Fortunately the airline employee spoke pretty good English but the process still took several hours. We asked that he send us an email confirmation since there was no printer at his station. He agreed and gave us his name and phone number.

He confirmed that the bag had not been put on the plane. It would be flown in the next day, but it would likely be three or four days before we received it. Since we were not staying in Mexico City it would be shipped to us..

Bummer! All of Jeanette’s clothes, her computer, her makeup . . . everything was in her bag.

On to San Miguel

Next we had to find our driver. He had expected to meet us about 6PM.

With all the delays it was now a little past 11PM.

I would not have been surprised if he was gone, but thankfully he was still waiting.

Into the car and on to the road we went racing up the highway to San Miguel de Allende three and a half hours away.

Our driver said he was heading right back to Mexico City after he dropped us off. Hard to imagine!

We got to the house at 2:30AM. The agent was still there waiting to let us in and show us around. Wow, also hard to imagine!

The Waiting

Then began the waiting for the suitcase.

The next day we tried to call the person who helped us with the report. It was his day off.

We tried the next day and couldn’t reach him.

We waited for the e-mail. It did not come. Later we learned he made a typo in the address so it never came.

All this time Jeanette was dealing with one set of clothes plus some delicates we bought in necessity and she was missing her makeup and other things.

Finally we phoned the main office of the airline in the US. A customer service representative confirmed they had our claim. The suitcase had been located and was in Mexico City. They were going to Fed-Ex it to us.

The next day it was delivered, six days late, but intact.

The airline gave us each a $75 credit for our inconvenience.

The adventure of travel.

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On Looking Forward

Today we are going to Muse about how we live our life. If this is your first visit, welcome to Musings. If you have been here before, welcome back. Over time we are going to talk about many things: the past, the present, perhaps the future, travel, art, society and more. Wherever my musing takes me. I hope you will come along with me.

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Things are not what they once were.

I submit the following as evidence:

Graduating Class of 1957

Front row, fourth from the right: T. Tribby

Graduating Class of 2019

Front row, fourth from the right: Teddy

I rest my case.

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On a different subject,

Recently Jeanette shared with me a writing sent to her by Greg Howard. I have a birthday coming up and the thoughtful message resonates with me. Perhaps it will with you as well.

List for Aging

1. It’s time to use the money you saved up. Use it and enjoy it. Don’t just keep it for those who may have no notion of the sacrifices you made to get it. Remember there is nothing more dangerous than a son or daughter-in-law with big ideas for your hard-earned capital. Warning: This is also a bad time for investments, even if it seems wonderful or fool-proof. They only bring problems and worries. This is a time for you to enjoy some peace and quiet.

2. Stop worrying about the financial situation of your children and grandchildren, and don’t feel bad spending your money on yourself. You’ve taken care of them for many years, and you’ve taught them what you could. You gave them an education, food, shelter and support. The responsibility is now theirs to earn their own money.

3. Keep a healthy life, without great physical effort. Do moderate exercise (like walking every day), eat well and get your sleep. It’s easy to become sick, and it gets harder to remain healthy. That is why you need to keep yourself in good shape and be aware of your medical and physical needs. Keep in touch with your doctor, do tests even when you’re feeling well. Stay informed.

4. Always buy the best, most beautiful items for your significant other. The key goal is to enjoy your money with your partner. One day one of you will miss the other, and the money will not provide any comfort then, enjoy it together

5. Don’t stress over the little things. Like paying a little extra on price quotes. You’ve already overcome so much in your life.You have good memories and bad ones, but the important thing is the present. Don’t let the past drag you down and don’t let the future frighten you. Feel good in the now. Small issues will soon be forgotten.

6. Regardless of age, always keep love alive. Love your partner, love life, love your family, love your neighbor and remember: “A man is not old as long as he has intelligence and affection.”

7. Be proud, both inside and out. Don’t stop going to your hair salon or barber, do your nails, go to the dermatologist and the dentist, keep your perfumes and creams well stocked. When you are well-maintained on the outside, it seeps in, making you feel proud and strong.

8. Don’t lose sight of fashion trends for your age, but keep your own sense of style. There’s nothing worse than an older person trying to wear the current fashion among youngsters. You’ve developed your own sense of what looks good on you – keep it and be proud of it. It’s part of who you are.

9. ALWAYS stay up-to-date. Read newspapers, watch the news. Go online and read what people are saying. Make sure you have an active email account and try to use some of those social networks. You’ll be surprised what old friends you’ll meet. Keeping in touch with what is going on and with the people you know is important at any age.

10. Respect the younger generation and their opinions. They may not have the same ideals as you, but they are the future, and will take the world in their direction. Give advice, not criticism, and try to remind them that yesterday’s wisdom still applies today.

11. Never use the phrase: “In my time.” Your time is now. As long as you’re alive, you are part of this time. You may have been younger, but you are still you now, having fun and enjoying life.

12. Some people embrace their golden years, while others become bitter and surly. Life is too short to waste your days on the latter. Spend your time with positive, cheerful people, it’ll rub off on you and your days will seem that much better. Spending your time with bitter people will make you older and harder to be around.

13. Do not surrender to the temptation of living with your children or grandchildren (if you have a financial choice, that is). Sure, being surrounded by family sounds great, but we all need our privacy. They need theirs and you need yours. If you’ve lost your partner (our deepest condolences), then find a person to move in with you and help out. Even then, do so only if you feel you really need the help or do not want to live alone.

14. Don’t abandon your hobbies. If you don’t have any, make new ones. You can travel, hike, cook, read, dance. You can adopt a cat or a dog, grow a garden, play cards, checkers, chess, dominoes, golf. You can paint, volunteer or just collect certain items. Find something you like and spend some real time having fun with it.

15. Even if you don’t feel like it, accept invitations. Baptisms, graduations, birthdays, weddings, conferences. Get out of the house, meet people you haven’t seen in a while, experience something new (or something old). But don’t get upset when you’re not invited. Some events are limited by resources, and not everyone can be hosted. The important thing is to leave the house from time to time. Go to museums, go walk through a field. Get out there.

16. Be a conversationalist. Talk less and listen more. Some people go on and on about the past, not caring if their listeners are really interested. That’s a great way of reducing their desire to speak with you. Listen first and answer questions, but don’t go off into long stories unless asked to. Speak in courteous tones and try not to complain or criticize too much unless you really need to. Try to accept situations as they are. Everyone is going through the same things, and people have a low tolerance for hearing complaints. Always find some good things to say as well.

17. Pain and discomfort go hand in hand with getting older. Try not to dwell on them but accept them as a part of the cycle of life we’re all going through. Try to minimize them in your mind. They are not who you are, they are something that life added to you. If they become your entire focus, you lose sight of the person you used to be.

18. If you’ve been offended by someone – forgive them. If you’ve offended someone – apologize. Don’t drag around resentment with you. It only serves to make you sad and bitter. It doesn’t matter who was right. Someone once said: “Holding a grudge is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die.” Don’t take that poison. Forgive, forget and move on with your life.

19. If you have a strong belief, savor it. But don’t waste your time trying to convince others. They will make their own choices no matter what you tell them, and it will only bring you frustration. Live your faith and set an example. Live true to your beliefs and let that memory sway them.

20. Laugh. Laugh A LOT. Laugh at everything. Remember, you are one of the lucky ones. You managed to have a life, a long one. Many never get to this age, never get to experience a full life. But you did. So what’s not to laugh about? Find the humor in your situation.

21. Take no notice of what others say about you and even less notice of what they might be thinking. They’ll do it anyway, and you should have pride in yourself and what you’ve achieved. Let them talk and don’t worry. They have no idea about your history, your memories and the life you’ve lived so far. There’s still much to be written, so get busy writing and don’t waste time thinking about what others might think. Now is the time to be at rest, at peace and as happy as you can be!

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Also on the commercial side, I have used Croquet as a subject of some of my art work. Here are some examples:

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National Croquet Center


Click to see

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At Green Gables

Click to see

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Watched Shot

Click to see

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Final Match

Click to see

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Yellow for the Wicket

Click to see

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The Gallery

Click to see

Thomas-Tribby.pixels.com is now offering I Phone Cases, Coffee Mugs, Throw Pillows, Greeting Cards, Bath Towels, Hand Towels, Shower Curtains, Duvet Covers , Yoga Mats, Tote Bags,Women’s T Shirts, Men’s T Shirtsand more with reproductions of my artwork.  If you want to check them out, here are the steps:

  • 1.  Click on this link: thomas-tribby.pixels.com.  
  • 2. Click on one of the categories in the menu bar at the top: Wall Art, Home Decor, Lifestyle, Stationery or Apparel.  It will list a number of options.
  • 3.  Click on option.  
  • 4.  Click on image and a sizing slide will open allowing you to adjust the image to the way you like it..

Have fun.

My work is available as traditional prints on canvas, paper or metal, but it also available on greeting cards, phone covers, tote bags, shower curtains,  t-shirts and more.  It makes for some very personalized gifts.  Below is the link to the site.  I hope you like it.

Click on:     thomas-tribby.pixels.com

For information about these or other original works of art, please feel free to contact us:








Our Time was Coming to a Close

Today we are going to Muse about our time in Mexico. If this is your first visit, welcome to Musings. If you have been here before, welcome back. Over time we are going to talk about many things: the past, the present, perhaps the future, travel, art, society and more. Wherever my musing takes me. I hope you will come along with me.

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Seven Weeks

We were seven weeks in Mexico this year. Too short a time. I really love it there.

We head to the central mountains in the heart of colonial Mexico. This is not the land of sprawling beach front resorts and carefully crafted tourist retreats. This is the land of history, of real community, a magical land. To be sure, it appeals to tourists and has five star hotels, spas and restaurants. But that is just the surface. There is a depth and soul that is missing in the beach front resorts.

Cactus and Vistas

Outside the city of San Miguel de Allende it is a land of cactus, vistas and farming.

Prickly Pear
Near Posos

The City

The city it is a place of sophistication, history and wonder.

San Miguel de Allende

It is just a place of fun, on so many levels.

Would you see this at home?
Or This?
Or this?

Churches, Weddings and Ancient Buildings

San Miguel is a city of churches and thus weddings, and ancient buildings.

On the way to a wedding
East side of la Parroquia
La parroquia de San Miguel Arcángel

Parks and Public Places

This is also a city of parks and public places. Parks and plazas are abundant and they are used.

Parque Benito Juarez
El Jardin
Park Benches are always full

Crowds

On the weekends the population swells with people coming for a short get-away. Most are young people from the south, principally Mexico City, I think.

And there are people
And more people
And More People

Color is What You See

I am always struck by the vibrant use of color. Color is the urban spice.

Stunning
Color is everywhere
El Mercado
Folk art

A Walking City

If you like to walk this is a place you would enjoy. People walk! Yes, there are taxis ($2-3)and Uber, but around Centro, the colonial center of town, people tend to walk.

History

This also is a place of importance in Mexican History. In 1810 the people of Mexico rose up against the government and started their War of Independence, freeing them from Spain and France. San Miguel el Grande was central in this revolt. Ignacio Allende, lived in San Miguel and he became the military leader of the revolt. He was executed during the conflict, but after Mexico achieved its Independence the city name was changed to San Miguel de Allende.

Independence Day Fiesta

The last week we were in town we attended a grand party celebrating Independence day. There were at our table, Jeanette and Beatty, friends Don and Joan who live in SMA and myself. It was a huge affair held at the Rosewood Hotel with several hundred people attending. Open bars. Multiple Mexican food stations. Entertainment.

Here are a few photos:

Under the tent
Beatty

I was fascinated by the strange cloud and moon configuration seen in the background.

Wow!
Don
There were dancers

Click this link to view video

There were Mariachis

Click this link to view video

For us the night came to a close when an actor portraying Ignacio Allende read the Cry for Independence, El Grito. It was about 11:00PM. We toddled off to our respective beds.

The party went to 2:00AM.

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Art Work

Also on the commercial side, here are examples of my work you may wish to check out:

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Blue Diva

Click to see

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Mirage

Click to see

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Spice

Click to see

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Family Circus

Click to see

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Reading with Grapes

Click to see

Thomas-Tribby.pixels.com is now offering I Phone Cases, Coffee Mugs, Throw Pillows, Greeting Cards, Bath Towels, Hand Towels, Shower Curtains, Duvet Covers , Yoga Mats, Tote Bags,Women’s T Shirts, Men’s T Shirts, Tapestries and more with reproductions of my artwork.  If you want to check them out, here are the steps:

  • 1.  Click on this link: thomas-tribby.pixels.com.  
  • 2. Click on one of the categories in the menu bar at the top: Wall Art, Home Decor, Lifestyle, Stationery or Apparel.  It will list a number of options.
  • 3.  Click on option.  
  • 4.  Click on image and a sizing slide will open allowing you to adjust the image to the way you like it..

Have fun.

My work is available as traditional prints on canvas, paper or metal, but it also available on greeting cards, phone covers, tote bags, shower curtains,  t-shirts and more.  It makes for some very personalized gifts.  Below is the link to the site.  I hope you like it.

Click on:     thomas-tribby.pixels.com

For information about these or other original works of art, please feel free to contact us:






Galaria Atotonilco

Today we are going to Muse about Mexican art and fine crafts. If this is your first visit, welcome to Musings. If you have been here before, welcome back. Over time we are going to talk about many things: the past, the present, perhaps the future, travel, art, society and more. Wherever my musing takes me. I hope you will come along with me.

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Sanctuario de Atotonilco

About 10 miles outside of San Miguel de Allende, Mexico is the Sanctuario de Atotonilco, a world heritage religious site.

It is famous for its chapel and its murals.

Chapel
fresco
fresco

It was at Atotonilco that Father Miguel Hidalgo y Casilla took the banner of the Virgin of Guadalupe as the battle flag when he led his Indian followers against the Spanish government starting the Mexican War of Independence in 1810.

Galaria Atotonilco

Not far from the Santuary tucked away in the country is the Galaria Atotonilco. It is a destination gallery of fine Mexican art and crafts, one of a kind in Mexico and interestingly owned and run by Mayer Shacter and his wife, transplants from Berkeley, California.

Jeanette and I have been there many times over the years, but this summer we were joined by our friend Beatty. She wanted to see fine work, so we made arrangements to show her the gallery.

An appointment is required since the gallery is located way back on private property away from the main road. I made the appointment several weeks in advance of Beatty’s arrival.

On the chosen day we arrived at the entrance to the property at 11:00 AM, our appointed time. The gate was closed and locked. Hmm!

I gave the gallery a call and explained “We are here“. There was a silence and then questions: “Who made the appointment? We never make appointments before 12:00. We are having an open house today which starts at 12:00. We are still setting up.”

Not the warmest of receptions, but after discussion it was agreed they would open the gate and allow us to wander around outside while the final preparations were being made for the open house.

The first thing you see after winding down a long and narrow road is the gallery.

Galaria Atotonilco

It definitely stands out. Next to it is the residence which is also very contemporary.

house on the right

On the back side of the house is a pool, seating areas and vast open space.

Jeanette and Beatty at the pool
seating area and dogs
The property goes on and on

I enjoyed wandering around the property nearly as much as visiting the gallery.

The Gallery

However, visiting the gallery is incredible. The art is principally fine crafts, small sculptures and carvings, masks, ceramics and such. The attention to detail and pattern has to be seen.

Here are examples:

This is outside the entrance
masks and carvings
more masks
A room of treasures
Four Ladies
Sensory OverLoad

There are rooms and more rooms filled with these wonderful objects. There are so many that I tend to get sensory overload and stop seeing what is right before me. I need to take a break and come back again.

Look at these next items. I have narrowed the focus so you see specific pieces. I think the attention to detail is phenomenal.

Dragon?
Leopard and Cubs
Coyote
Princess
Two Ladies

That gives you a mini-tour. If you find yourself in San Miguel de Allende you should seek this out.

And just so you know, Beatty made it worth while for them to let us browse around.

Nirvana

Afterward, we toddled off to Nirvana, a hotel, restaurant and spa set in the countryside not far from the gallery. It was time for lunch.

Lunch among the Cactus
It is a popular place.

more to come

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Awestruck tote Bag

tote bag available

Art Work

Also on the commercial side, here are examples of my work you may wish to check out:

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Blue Diva

Click to see

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Mirage

Click to see

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Spice

Click to see

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Family Circus

Click to see

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Reading with Grapes

Click to see

Thomas-Tribby.pixels.com is now offering I Phone Cases, Coffee Mugs, Throw Pillows, Greeting Cards, Bath Towels, Hand Towels, Shower Curtains, Duvet Covers , Yoga Mats, Tote Bags,Women’s T Shirts, Men’s T Shirts, Tapestries and more with reproductions of my artwork.  If you want to check them out, here are the steps:

  • 1.  Click on this link: thomas-tribby.pixels.com.  
  • 2. Click on one of the categories in the menu bar at the top: Wall Art, Home Decor, Lifestyle, Stationery or Apparel.  It will list a number of options.
  • 3.  Click on option.  
  • 4.  Click on image and a sizing slide will open allowing you to adjust the image to the way you like it..

Have fun.

My work is available as traditional prints on canvas, paper or metal, but it also available on greeting cards, phone covers, tote bags, shower curtains,  t-shirts and more.  It makes for some very personalized gifts.  Below is the link to the site.  I hope you like it.

Click on:     thomas-tribby.pixels.com

For information about these or other original works of art, please feel free to contact us:






What could have been

Today we are going to Muse about luck. If this is your first visit, welcome to Musings. If you have been here before, welcome back. Over time we are going to talk about many things: the past, the present, perhaps the future, travel, art, society and more. Wherever my musing takes me. I hope you will come along with me.

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Wow. Sometimes we are just lucky.

While we were in Mexico, Jeanette and I were invited to a party, a birthday celebration, held downtown in a restaurant, appropriately called The Restaurant. It was “burger night”!

We were a group of ten, two guys and eight women. The conversation was lively and the margaritas fueled the evening. The burger was pretty good too.

Eventually the festivity wore down and it was time to toddle home. We grabbed a taxi just as it began to rain. Thunder and lightning. KaBLAM! KaBLAM! And torrents of rain.

The taxi inched its way through the narrow streets which were running curb to curb with water. The windshield wipers could not clear the water it came so hard and fast. Our driver could barely see the road.

Our house was located next to a park on a one way street that goes up-hill away from the main city streets. When we finally got to the house the street was a river six inches deep running curb to curb with the downhill run off. The rain was sheeting down. I was soaking wet standing in the rain while I paid the driver. I ran to the front entry fumbling for the key. Open finally, I stepped into the courtyard. Jeanette came flying in. I closed the door.

Then Jeanette shouted,

My purse! I left my purse in the taxi!”

What! Her phone, drivers license, money and Filofax of contacts all in her purse.

I ran out to the street and saw the taxi slowly disappear up the street through the rain. Oh _ _ _ _! Big problem.

On the opposite side of the park there is a one way street running back down to the city center. I took the chance that the taxi would take that road out of our neighborhood and I ran through the park in the downpour. As I reached the street I saw headlights coming toward me. It was raining so hard I could no tell if it was the taxi or not, but I stood in the middle of the lane and it came to a stop.

Yes! Our taxi.

Laying on the back seat was the purse.

Sometimes we are just lucky

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Awestruck tote Bag

tote bag available

Art Work

Also on the commercial side, here are examples of my work you may wish to check out:

Blue Diva

Click to see

Mirage

Click to see

Spice

Click to see

Family Circus

Click to see

Reading with Grapes

Click to see

Thomas-Tribby.pixels.com is now offering I Phone Cases, Coffee Mugs, Throw Pillows, Greeting Cards, Bath Towels, Hand Towels, Shower Curtains, Duvet Covers , Yoga Mats, Tote Bags,Women’s T Shirts, Men’s T Shirts, Tapestries and more with reproductions of my artwork.  If you want to check them out, here are the steps:

  • 1.  Click on this link: thomas-tribby.pixels.com.  
  • 2. Click on one of the categories in the menu bar at the top: Wall Art, Home Decor, Lifestyle, Stationery or Apparel.  It will list a number of options.
  • 3.  Click on option.  
  • 4.  Click on image and a sizing slide will open allowing you to adjust the image to the way you like it..

Have fun.

My work is available as traditional prints on canvas, paper or metal, but it also available on greeting cards, phone covers, tote bags, shower curtains,  t-shirts and more.  It makes for some very personalized gifts.  Below is the link to the site.  I hope you like it.

Click on:     thomas-tribby.pixels.com

For information about these or other original works of art, please feel free to contact us:




Hola de Mexico

Today we are going to Muse about Mexico.  If this is your first visit, welcome to Musings. If you have been here before, welcome back. Over time we are going to talk about many things: the past, the present, perhaps the future, travel, art, society and more. Wherever my musing takes me. I hope you will come along with me.

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We are back. Did you miss us?

Almost two months ago Jeanette and I flew down to Mexico to stay in San Miguel de Allende (SMA) where we go most every year. It is our way of escaping the heat and humidity of the Florida summer. It also helps to be away from the hurricane track.

As a result, my Musing went silent. But we are back and I’ll try to do some catching up in the next several weeks.

OUR HOUSE

The house we rented this year was one storey, which is unusual in SMA. Because of the small lot sizes, most homes are two, three or even four stories. It is a vertical town. But ours was all on one floor except for the Casita which we did not use.

This is the dining area and kitchen.

There were windows and doors on every wall.

Here is what I called “The Morning Room”.

This is where I would have my coffee and read my e-mail and internet news. It was the only room in the house that could get Wi-Fi.

Outdoors there was a comfortable loggia, a sitting area and a large gated yard. The latter was important to keep Teddy safe from harm.

Teddy
loggia
Sitting area
back yard

And there was the Casita which we did not use.

I liked the Casita staircase.

THE ROUTINE

Our time in SMA was spent doing the normal things: dining out, giving and attending parties, shopping, playing croquet, and hosting guests.

Shopping
At the Novell’s
It’s a party
Dining Out
Croquet

There was a rhythm to our day. I was up first, usually.
Walk the dog.
Feed the dog.
Read the news, then off to croquet.

Jeanette was into yoga, massages and squiring around house guests. We had our friend Janet who came down twice for several days. Sandwiched between her visits was her ex-husband and our friend, Gary. Near the end of our stay we had Beatty. All contributed to making our stay special.

CROWDS

On the weekend SMA was swarming with tourists, young people for the most part. Many come up from Mexico city. When they come Centro (downtown) is really difficult to get through. We would try to stay away.

tourists
more tourists

Mid week, the crowds were much more manageable.

mid-week difference.

RYTHYM

Most days were sunny and nice with the temperature reaching the low 80’s. In the afternoon the clouds would begin to gather.

Afternoon clouds
Some skies were stunning

And on occasion we would have evening rain. Twice it rained really hard. Here you can see the clouds building.

It rained a lot later

In one storm, the transformer at the Hope Harmon Croquet Club was struck by lightning, blowing out the club’s electricity. The pump used to irrigate the courts was useless. When we left for home, the power was still off, some ten days later. The club did its best to water the court, using a hand held hose and trucking water in several times.

Trying to save the court

When we arrived, the court was in the best shape I had seen it. When we left there were brown spots and dead areas. It is too bad.

So now we are back. I’ll Muse some more about our time in Mexico in the weeks to come. Hasta luego.

more to come

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We now offer tote bags.

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Tote Bag available

Art Work

Also on the commercial side, I have used Croquet as a subject of some of my art work. Here are some examples:

National Croquet Center

Click to see

At Green Gables

Click to see

Watched Shot

Click to see

Final Match

Click to see

Yellow for the Wicket

Click to see

The Gallery

Click to see

Thomas-Tribby.pixels.com is now offering I Phone Cases, Coffee Mugs, Throw Pillows, Greeting Cards, Bath Towels, Hand Towels, Shower Curtains, Duvet Covers , Yoga Mats, Tote Bags,Women’s T Shirts, Men’s T Shirtsand more with reproductions of my artwork.  If you want to check them out, here are the steps:

  • 1.  Click on this link: thomas-tribby.pixels.com.  
  • 2. Click on one of the categories in the menu bar at the top: Wall Art, Home Decor, Lifestyle, Stationery or Apparel.  It will list a number of options.
  • 3.  Click on option.  
  • 4.  Click on image and a sizing slide will open allowing you to adjust the image to the way you like it..

Have fun.

My work is available as traditional prints on canvas, paper or metal, but it also available on greeting cards, phone covers, tote bags, shower curtains,  t-shirts and more.  It makes for some very personalized gifts.  Below is the link to the site.  I hope you like it.

Click on:     thomas-tribby.pixels.com

For information about these or other original works of art, please feel free to contact us:




About Croquet

Today we are going to Muse about Croquet.  If this is your first visit, welcome to Musings. If you have been here before, welcome back. Over time we are going to talk about many things: the past, the present, perhaps the future, travel, art, society and more. Wherever my musing takes me. I hope you will come along with me.

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Not a golfer

Growing up I was never into sports. The only sport-like activity I remember was ping pong and pool. Many hours were spent in those pursuits.

In my late fifties I met Jeanette. She is a golfer and loves the sport. I thought to myself “that is something we could do together” and I decided to take it up. I did it for five years and was never very good. I was also not good to be with. If I made a bad shot I would get surly, not enjoying the game and spoiling it for anyone with me. Finally one bad day it came to a head and I said to myself, “Enough! I hate this. I make others feel bad. I am not doing this anymore.”

And I quit and haven’t played it since.

But I needed something to do.

And, so . . . Croquet

At our club there are croquet lawns. I had played backyard croquet once or twice growing up but that was all. These courts were obviously more serious than the game we played as a child.

Croquet lawns

Years earlier a friend, Dwight Mayer, had invited a number of us to the courts and showed us some aspects of the game. He was trying to get us involved, but at the time I did not want to devote the free time I had on the weekends to any one thing.

Now, though, I thought, perhaps this is something I would enjoy. I bought and read the book, Croquet the Sport by Jack R. Osborn.

And about this time another friend, Carl Sturges, a croquet player, took me under his wing and gave me lessons.

Time has passed and croquet has become an important social connection for both Jeanette and me. We have friends across the country and in Mexico because of croquet. Recently we played in a tournament in New Jersey. There were players from several states in addition to New Jersey: Florida, California, Massachusetts, New York that I know of. Probably more. Some of the players were new to us but there were a number we knew from previous tournaments.

Croquet is a low impact sport in which women and men compete as equals. The key is skill and strategy. As much as anything it is a mind game. Properly played the contestant will be thinking three and four turns ahead, trying to anticipate the plays the opponent will make and how to defend from them and capitalize on them. It has been likened to chess and billiards played on a lawn.

Florida is the home of the National Croquet Center, the largest croquet facility in the country. It is located in Palm Beach County where there are at least eight croquet clubs. So we have it pretty good where I live.

If you have an interest you can contact the United States Croquet Association (http://www.croquetamerica.com) and see which clubs are in your area. They also have schools and a list of tournaments held around the country.

Art Work

On the commercial side, I have used the game as a subject of some of my art work. Here are some examples:

National Croquet Center

Click to see

At Green Gables

Click to see

Watched Shot

Click to see

Final Match

Click to see

Yellow for the Wicket

Click to see

The Gallery

Click to see


More to come

If you like Musings, take a moment and click the sign up button on the side-bar to the right so you will be notified by e-mail when I make a new post.

Thomas-Tribby.pixels.com is now offering I Phone Cases, Coffee Mugs, Throw Pillows, Greeting Cards, Bath Towels, Hand Towels, Shower Curtains, Duvet Covers , Yoga Mats, Tote Bags,Women’s T Shirts, Men’s T Shirtsand more with reproductions of my artwork.  If you want to check them out, here are the steps:

  • 1.  Click on this link: thomas-tribby.pixels.com.  
  • 2. Click on one of the categories in the menu bar at the top: Wall Art, Home Decor, Lifestyle, Stationery or Apparel.  It will list a number of options.
  • 3.  Click on option.  
  • 4.  Click on image and a sizing slide will open allowing you to adjust the image to the way you like it..

Have fun.

My work is available as traditional prints on canvas, paper or metal, but it also available on greeting cards, phone covers, tote bags, shower curtains,  t-shirts and more.  It makes for some very personalized gifts.  Below is the link to the site.  I hope you like it.

Click on:     thomas-tribby.pixels.com

For information about these or other original works of art, please feel free to contact us: